Chad Howse usually sets out three goals for men in his Average to Alpha page. It’s good coaching strategy. In “Modern Masculinity” (ebook; Amazon; 2016) I organize every chapter around three points. Although I don’t think being masculine is as easy as 1 2 3, or that it ever is or should be easy, I know that men are more likely to act positively when their objectives are limited. I begin with three points: